The following scenario came from a local radio station and I had a few comments about this one so I figured that you all might too because this couple really showed out.
This woman lives with both her husband and her ex-boyfriend because her husband allowed the ex-boyfriend to move in with them when she stated that he had nowhere to live. But the real problem is she doesn't know who's the father to her baby. What!!!
Q&A TIME:
#1 We are married. Why are you still talking to your ex?
#2 He has no home, BUT he has a phone where can call (YOU, a married woman)to tell you this.
This situation is crazy all the way around. The ex already knew that the wife was crazy and would feel sorry for him with some mess like that. Because that was very un-smart to let any man move into your house with you and your husband. You need to think this situation all the way through. You need to do a 360 of it then go into the eye of the storm and view it from the inside. How would you feel about your husband asking you could an ex move in with you? You wouldn't like that. Don't bring third parties into your relationship. I don't even see how you were comfortable living with both men like that. Did you upgrade to downgrade?
As for the husband, there's only one question that stands. Did he really ask for this? Really, you are a married man that is comfortable with your wife talking to an ex. There's a fine line between trust and stupidity and you tripped so far over that line, you don't even know when you passed it. You do NOT let ANY GROWN MAN move into the house with you at all for no reason. THAT'S A NO NO!!! If he can't take care of himself that is not your obligation to do that and he's not your son, so don't go with the "I just want to help" role. That's way out of bounds. In a sense, yes you did ask for this, but in essence the wife is a pimp. Too bad that the baby had to be a part of the foolishness. You took it there. You allowed the ex access to your relationship like that. You allowed this man to gain power over you to see what goes on inside of your relationship.
Lastly, the ex. Where do you get the nerve to ask a married woman of any nature can you move in with her and husband? WOW! SO BOLD! That is misplaced confidence. If you applied that same confidence in getting a job that's decent enough to stay where you want, you wouldn't be in the mess today. Even if this was all done because you wanted your ex back this was taken to extremity. How could you even allow yourself to look pathetic like that? Come on now. Upgrade yourself and put yourself up on game and make her wonder why it didn't work. That sympathy role is childish. If you didn't know who else to call, you could have called a homeless shelter. So what if you didn't want to stay there. Sometimes you sacrifice to put yourself into a better position because staying with a married couple where you KNEW involvement could arise is more crazy than the advice I suggested.
Well people, I hope you enjoyed this blog and I would love to hear your comments about this situation and I'd also like to know if you would allow your partner's ex to move in with you or would you ask if your ex could move in with you and your partner.
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4 comments:
The ex knew good and damn well what he was doing. He obviously colaborated with the wife so that he could have a place to live as well as a f*ck buddy. The wife got her cake and ate it too. The husband..... that level of stupidity is inexcusable. He couldn't have been ignorant to the wife and the ex fooling around in his own house. Now they've put an innocent, unborn life into a weird situation because of their collective stupidity and lust... pathetic.
This chick was living the life. roflmao
Unacceptable
Thanks for leaving comments! It is clearly an open relationship.
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