Ladies...AND Gentlemen as well, please be as professional as possible when you are trying to sell a product. I saw this ad where this woman was trying to sell a product and she was running off at the mouth in a rude manner. Honestly, I don't care how good of a deal you're offering if your attitude is JACKED UP then you're not going to make a sale. The lady stated: I already told you how much I wanted for the car and what I knew about the car. That's all I know. So don't ask me anything else and NO NO NO NO NO you can't drive it. So stop asking. I just want it out of my yard.
LOL. Well, honey. I am glad to notify you that you have a good chance of getting it bought by a junk yard and not for the price asked. Also you are crazy to think that people aren't going to ask to DRIVE a car before they buy it. I know you walked in that house and looked around before you moved in it even though your yard is already looking ghetto so removing the car alone won't make your house look any better and property value spans pass your yard.
FYI: I know what the house looks like because she posted photos with the ad.
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Tuesday, November 30, 2010
Does The Recession Affect Relationships?
The following question is courtesy of Angela (Editor in Chief of Essence Magazine)
IN TIMES OF EQUALITY, WHERE MEN AND WOMEN ARE TREATED EQUALLY, WE UNDERSTAND THAT IT IS MANDATORY FOR THE GUY TO PAY FOR THE FIRST DAY, BUT SINCE WE ARE IN A RECESSION SHOULD THE WOMEN PAY FOR SOME OF THE DATES TOO OR IS CHIVALRY DEAD?
First, props to Angela for managing to get equality, recession, and chivalry into one question and confusing us all at the same time.
I don't think that the recession has anything to do with this at all, but I do feel that it would be very crazy for someone to invite you somewhere where they can't afford to take you. I couldn't imagine someone asking to take you somewhere and then when you get there they expect you to pay for both of you. Besides if you can't afford it, don't ask just stay in because if it's that big of an issue, it is going to take a toll on the relationship anyway. Ladies, don't be TOO independent to let the man be a gentlemen. If you think that there's a sexual obligation in it and you don't want that then don't try to takeover and become the man. Simply, don't attend the rendezvous or be safe and ask first because you're going to look just as crazy paying for both of you simply because you don't want to sleep with him and if he is that type if male and you don't want that then you don't need to go out with him in the first place.
But I will be honest when I tell you that not having money can ruin a relationship, but I don't fault the recession for that. I don't know many people that lost money during the recession. If they didn't have money, they didn't have it in the beginning. The recession is all about big companies in my opinion. So it may have ruined some business relationships. Maybe you are a business owner with your significant other. Is it affecting you?
IN TIMES OF EQUALITY, WHERE MEN AND WOMEN ARE TREATED EQUALLY, WE UNDERSTAND THAT IT IS MANDATORY FOR THE GUY TO PAY FOR THE FIRST DAY, BUT SINCE WE ARE IN A RECESSION SHOULD THE WOMEN PAY FOR SOME OF THE DATES TOO OR IS CHIVALRY DEAD?
First, props to Angela for managing to get equality, recession, and chivalry into one question and confusing us all at the same time.
I don't think that the recession has anything to do with this at all, but I do feel that it would be very crazy for someone to invite you somewhere where they can't afford to take you. I couldn't imagine someone asking to take you somewhere and then when you get there they expect you to pay for both of you. Besides if you can't afford it, don't ask just stay in because if it's that big of an issue, it is going to take a toll on the relationship anyway. Ladies, don't be TOO independent to let the man be a gentlemen. If you think that there's a sexual obligation in it and you don't want that then don't try to takeover and become the man. Simply, don't attend the rendezvous or be safe and ask first because you're going to look just as crazy paying for both of you simply because you don't want to sleep with him and if he is that type if male and you don't want that then you don't need to go out with him in the first place.
But I will be honest when I tell you that not having money can ruin a relationship, but I don't fault the recession for that. I don't know many people that lost money during the recession. If they didn't have money, they didn't have it in the beginning. The recession is all about big companies in my opinion. So it may have ruined some business relationships. Maybe you are a business owner with your significant other. Is it affecting you?
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Tried to Hide It
The Letter:
Dear moring crew about 24 years ago when i was out there buck wild on a friday night drinking that crown royal and smoking on a dime bag of good weed. i went to a house party meet this lady and dance the night away bumping and grinding made plans to meet at the holiday Inn. After wards.I was to high to drive so I crashed in the car. the next day my friends dogged me hard about how ugly she was, two day later I meet her sober and oh!! fill in the blanks. she is so ugly you can use her picture to stop people from stuttering!! fast forward to now and my mom called me chewing me out like never before, yelling screaming,cussing at me. The reason was this ugly girl is now an employee for my mother and she told her about that night. Now my wife of 17 years is cracking Jokes along with the whole family. I can not believe this is happening. It was a bad night 21 years ago. I know some dirt on those who are cracking jokes but I honor the code, but this is starting to get old. please help thank you!! sincerely tried to hide it
My Response:
Honestly, this letter isn't about anything. I think you just wanted some more people to know about it. Now we know. There is no problem here if you had to dig 24 years into your archive to find something to write about. So here's my advice: Go to bed!
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Source: Strawberry Letter 23
Monday, November 29, 2010
I Live With My Husband & My Ex
The following scenario came from a local radio station and I had a few comments about this one so I figured that you all might too because this couple really showed out.
This woman lives with both her husband and her ex-boyfriend because her husband allowed the ex-boyfriend to move in with them when she stated that he had nowhere to live. But the real problem is she doesn't know who's the father to her baby. What!!!
Q&A TIME:
#1 We are married. Why are you still talking to your ex?
#2 He has no home, BUT he has a phone where can call (YOU, a married woman)to tell you this.
This situation is crazy all the way around. The ex already knew that the wife was crazy and would feel sorry for him with some mess like that. Because that was very un-smart to let any man move into your house with you and your husband. You need to think this situation all the way through. You need to do a 360 of it then go into the eye of the storm and view it from the inside. How would you feel about your husband asking you could an ex move in with you? You wouldn't like that. Don't bring third parties into your relationship. I don't even see how you were comfortable living with both men like that. Did you upgrade to downgrade?
As for the husband, there's only one question that stands. Did he really ask for this? Really, you are a married man that is comfortable with your wife talking to an ex. There's a fine line between trust and stupidity and you tripped so far over that line, you don't even know when you passed it. You do NOT let ANY GROWN MAN move into the house with you at all for no reason. THAT'S A NO NO!!! If he can't take care of himself that is not your obligation to do that and he's not your son, so don't go with the "I just want to help" role. That's way out of bounds. In a sense, yes you did ask for this, but in essence the wife is a pimp. Too bad that the baby had to be a part of the foolishness. You took it there. You allowed the ex access to your relationship like that. You allowed this man to gain power over you to see what goes on inside of your relationship.
Lastly, the ex. Where do you get the nerve to ask a married woman of any nature can you move in with her and husband? WOW! SO BOLD! That is misplaced confidence. If you applied that same confidence in getting a job that's decent enough to stay where you want, you wouldn't be in the mess today. Even if this was all done because you wanted your ex back this was taken to extremity. How could you even allow yourself to look pathetic like that? Come on now. Upgrade yourself and put yourself up on game and make her wonder why it didn't work. That sympathy role is childish. If you didn't know who else to call, you could have called a homeless shelter. So what if you didn't want to stay there. Sometimes you sacrifice to put yourself into a better position because staying with a married couple where you KNEW involvement could arise is more crazy than the advice I suggested.
Well people, I hope you enjoyed this blog and I would love to hear your comments about this situation and I'd also like to know if you would allow your partner's ex to move in with you or would you ask if your ex could move in with you and your partner.
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Supermodel Dominique
www.discoverdominique.webs.com
This woman lives with both her husband and her ex-boyfriend because her husband allowed the ex-boyfriend to move in with them when she stated that he had nowhere to live. But the real problem is she doesn't know who's the father to her baby. What!!!
Q&A TIME:
#1 We are married. Why are you still talking to your ex?
#2 He has no home, BUT he has a phone where can call (YOU, a married woman)to tell you this.
This situation is crazy all the way around. The ex already knew that the wife was crazy and would feel sorry for him with some mess like that. Because that was very un-smart to let any man move into your house with you and your husband. You need to think this situation all the way through. You need to do a 360 of it then go into the eye of the storm and view it from the inside. How would you feel about your husband asking you could an ex move in with you? You wouldn't like that. Don't bring third parties into your relationship. I don't even see how you were comfortable living with both men like that. Did you upgrade to downgrade?
As for the husband, there's only one question that stands. Did he really ask for this? Really, you are a married man that is comfortable with your wife talking to an ex. There's a fine line between trust and stupidity and you tripped so far over that line, you don't even know when you passed it. You do NOT let ANY GROWN MAN move into the house with you at all for no reason. THAT'S A NO NO!!! If he can't take care of himself that is not your obligation to do that and he's not your son, so don't go with the "I just want to help" role. That's way out of bounds. In a sense, yes you did ask for this, but in essence the wife is a pimp. Too bad that the baby had to be a part of the foolishness. You took it there. You allowed the ex access to your relationship like that. You allowed this man to gain power over you to see what goes on inside of your relationship.
Lastly, the ex. Where do you get the nerve to ask a married woman of any nature can you move in with her and husband? WOW! SO BOLD! That is misplaced confidence. If you applied that same confidence in getting a job that's decent enough to stay where you want, you wouldn't be in the mess today. Even if this was all done because you wanted your ex back this was taken to extremity. How could you even allow yourself to look pathetic like that? Come on now. Upgrade yourself and put yourself up on game and make her wonder why it didn't work. That sympathy role is childish. If you didn't know who else to call, you could have called a homeless shelter. So what if you didn't want to stay there. Sometimes you sacrifice to put yourself into a better position because staying with a married couple where you KNEW involvement could arise is more crazy than the advice I suggested.
Well people, I hope you enjoyed this blog and I would love to hear your comments about this situation and I'd also like to know if you would allow your partner's ex to move in with you or would you ask if your ex could move in with you and your partner.
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Supermodel Dominique
www.discoverdominique.webs.com
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